
Slow & Steady Wins The Race
Step into the world of RJ Carrier Duquette—also known as Mister Mistress—where strength meets softness, and movement becomes story.
From his first class in Seattle to his current life in New York City, RJ has built a path shaped by curiosity, dedication, and a love of transformation through dance. What began as a leap of faith has carried him onto stages across the West Coast and into the rehearsal rooms of SoulSkin Dance, where his artistry continues to evolve.
RJ’s work blends the sensuality of heels with the depth of contemporary performance, infused with threads of latin ballroom, burlesque, and commercial dance. Beyond the stage he teaches Pilates, exploring the body’s mechanics with the same care and creativity he brings to choreography.
For RJ, dance is more than performance—it’s a practice of presence, strength, and expression. His journey is a reminder that artistry isn’t about rushing toward an end point, but about honoring the process, respecting the craft, and finding beauty in every step along the way.